Founder's Corner

My Journey and Inspiration

My name is Nydia S. Wells-Evans. I am a native of New Orleans, Louisiana. I have been through a lot, but thank God I don't look like what I've been through. My journey of abuse began during my childhood years. I grew up in an abusive household where my parents fought several times a day. I watched my mother express herself freely every day, only to be torn down by my father because he wanted things his way. This experience left me emotionally and mentally scarred.

Growing up, I believed that males were superior and females were supposed to listen. Determined not to repeat the cycle, I vowed never to accept or go through what I witnessed. However, this led me to be overly submissive, thinking it would make life easier. I was wrong. I found myself in several unhealthy relationships, becoming a victim of domestic and sexual assault. I spent years shutting down emotionally and bottling up my feelings, which only made matters worse.

I struggled with self-esteem issues for a long time. Today, I no longer have those issues and have learned to value myself regardless of others' opinions. Knowing how it feels to be in such a dark place, I am passionate about helping others who are going through similar experiences.

Founding Blessing Our Women, Inc.

In 2015, driven by my experiences and the desire to help others, I founded Blessing Our Women, Inc. (B.O.W.). Purple, the color for domestic violence awareness and a symbol of royalty, inspired the name. While domestic violence affects all genders, women are the majority of victims, and I wanted to create a safe space for them.

Blessing Our Women, Inc. is a nonprofit organization dedicated to bringing awareness to domestic violence. We believe every voice matters and every story counts. Help us break the silence against domestic violence! B.O.W. for a new beginning. We admire the survivors, honor those taken, and never give up hope on ending domestic violence.

Every day, women face the difficult choice of staying in an abusive relationship or leaving. Too often, staying results in death. It's time to end this and save lives. B.O.W. Inc. is based in New Orleans and led by a domestic violence survivor. Our vision is to bring awareness and support to victims, empowering and promoting healing through our programs and events.

Our Mission and Vision

• Mission: To empower, promote, and support all women and their families. We aim to encourage and empower survivors through our annual luncheon and other activities.
• Vision: To bring awareness to others, provide support to victims, and work with other organizations to offer hope, healing, and rebuild families.

Overview of My Role as a Licensed and Certified Domestic Violence H.E.L.P. Coach

In my role as a Certified Domestic Violence H.E.L.P. Coach, I provide holistic support designed to foster hope, empowerment, and life skills among survivors. The H.E.L.P. program, which stands for Hope, Empowerment, Life Skills, and Prevention methods, is a comprehensive approach that addresses the multifaceted needs of individuals affected by domestic violence.

Hope is the cornerstone of my coaching philosophy. By sharing my own story of survival and triumph, I aim to instill a sense of possibility and optimism in my clients. I believe that hope is the first step towards healing and rebuilding one's life.

Empowerment is achieved through personalized coaching sessions that focus on building self-esteem, confidence, and a sense of agency. I work closely with my clients to identify their strengths, set achievable goals, and develop the skills necessary to attain them. My coaching approach is tailored to each individual's unique circumstances, ensuring that they receive the support and guidance that is most relevant to their needs.

Life skills training is a critical component of the H.E.L.P. program. Many survivors of domestic violence face significant challenges in areas such as financial management, career development, and personal health. Through targeted training and resources, I help my clients develop the practical skills needed to achieve independence and self-sufficiency.

Prevention methods are integrated into my coaching to equip clients with the tools and knowledge necessary to recognize and avoid future abusive situations. This includes education on healthy relationships, boundary setting, and self-advocacy.

As a coach, my approach is rooted in empathy and personal experience. I understand the complexities and nuances of domestic violence, and I am committed to providing compassionate and effective support. My ultimate goal is to empower my clients to not only survive but thrive, transforming their experiences of pain into a foundation for a brighter, more fulfilling future.

Through Blessing Our Women, Inc., I have extended my reach, creating programs and initiatives that address the needs of a broader community of survivors. Our organization offers a range of services, including support groups, educational workshops, and advocacy efforts. We strive to create a supportive and empowering environment where survivors can heal, grow, and reclaim their lives.

My work as a domestic violence H.E.L.P. coach and founder of Blessing Our Women, Inc. is a testament to the power of resilience and the transformative potential of support and empowerment. Together, we can create a world where survivors are not defined by their past but empowered to shape their future.